It seems simple when you read the title of this post.
What you allow you perpetuate.
However, changing the behavior is where the real work is done. And It’s not easy. At ALL.
#RealTalk - changing our patterns and behavior takes self-discipline coupled with self-compassion.
How does this lesson show up?
When you allow someone to speak to you in a manner that leaves you feeling gross, disrespected, unseen, hurt, or any other low vibrational emotion of the like - It’s time to look at yourself and what you are allowing.
So often we go to the other party or the other condition.
“If only they would change this…”
“If only this wasn’t the situation…”
I say, turn the mirror back on yourself.
If you feel like you aren’t making more money - what’s are you allowing in regards to your relationship with money?
If you feel lonely - How are you allowing yourself to be abandoned by yourself?
If you feel disrespected - What needs to be done to set a new boundary.
The hardest part about personal responsibility is that is requires you to take a stand for yourself.
You can’t make everyone happy all the time.
You can certainly assure your needs are met by being clear on what you allow in your awareness and therefore, perpetuating more of what you desire.